We celebrated Adrian's 4th birthday in a big way this weekend. This is the first year he has really gotten 'into' his birthday and I made sure that the whole day was an event for him. As a warm up he had a little party with his class at Preschool on Friday. I had a hard time explaining to him that although he had a party that day it wasn't actually his birthday. Oh well, maybe he'll understand it next year.
On his 'birthday eve' I snuck into his room (which wasn't hard as he can sleep through anything) and decorated it with balloons and streamers. I set up a bunch of birthday 'stuff' at his spot at the table along with a donut complete with candle. He was so excited he woke up around 6AM. I think he was more baffled by the decorations in his room than anything. Vivian thought it was pretty cool too.
Jumping on Adrian's decorated bed.
Blowing out his breakfast candle. We did it at least 10 times before he got his fill. After this he had 'bacon and potatoes' which was his requested birthday breakfast.
Vivian playing Happy Birthday on the drums.
By this time Adrian was in the mood for more birthday decorations. We went outside where I let him have the remaining balloons and streamers to do with whatever he chose. I think this was his favorite part! This killed time until Jamie woke up and he was allowed to open his presents from us (a guitar and keyboard).
Jamie and Vivian watching as Adrian opened his guitar. I can tell from the look on his face he already knew what it was. He carried that guitar around with him all day. I had to talk him into taking it off to get dressed and use the bathroom.
Finally getting to strum his guitar. He has been waiting for it for weeks. (Note the puffed out eye... he got attacked by a bug of some sort Thursday night and woke up with it swollen shut.)
We played around the house for the rest of the morning as that is what Adrian wanted to do. He is very happy just to stay home and hang out. Grammy and Grampy U arrived and took him in town for a birthday hair cut, (a present for me as I was getting tired of his shag, but not tired enough to brave the hair salon with him) which he surprisingly agreed to. Then the Nanny and Grampy J along with Gerry and Michelle arrived and the party really started. Adrian opened his birthday presents and he was oh so excited to do so. Funny the change from last year... he didn't really care too much for presents last summer and this year he could hardly contain himself at the thought.
What could it be???
Then it was supper time and we enjoyed the nice afternoon with a BBQ on the deck. Adrian was starting to get pretty tired at this point after his long day of celebrating and I have to admit I was right there with him. I made him a monkey cake which turned out better than I expected and he enjoyed the fact that he got to eat all of the decorations on it, including the donut ears. I can only imagine he wasn't feeling so hot after all of the treats he had that day. It was a great day indeed, but I am happy on so many levels that it only happens once a year!
Blowing out the candles.
Monkey cake.
Playing the guitar and getting some birthday wishes from Uncle Brian.
On a personal note, I have really struggled with him turning four. Four is definitely NOT a baby anymore and I sure miss baby Adrian in a big way. But it is awesome to watch him grow and develop into the little person God has designed him to be. And there is no turning back so I just have to get over it! Although he really gets a kick out of it when I tell him he has to stop growing because he knows he gets to say 'No' and get away with it.
A few highlights of his 4th year that come to mind:
Becoming a great big brother. I truly think he really loves and enjoys Vivian. When he was opening his presents he offered one to Vivian to open. It is so sweet that he even thought to do that, let alone actually did it.
Starting preschool. This was a biggie. Before we started he was a Mommy's boy in a big way. Sometimes it would be a fight for me to even miss his bedtime after spending the entire day with him. The start of school was rough with him crying his little eyes out for about 3 months of dropoffs straight. But I am happy to report that he now runs off with with his pals as soon as he arrives and occasionally even forgets to kiss me good-bye. (Okay, not so happy about the last part.)
Learning. I can see Adrian's talents emerging and it is amazing to me. He has a very impressive vocabulary and still loves to read and talk. He often makes up stories or songs out of the blue. And he uses grown up expressions like "I just realized...", "Occasionally..." and "Why do you ask?" that just seems so strange coming out of his little mouth. I think he is also developing a strong interest in music as can be seen from his requested birthday presents of a drum set, guitar and keyboard. (Although he assures me he still wants to be a construction worker so his first love is still alive and well.)
Becoming a social butterfly. Adrian used to bury his head in my leg or shoulder when someone talked to him but now he is very interested in talking to anybody at any time. He is that typical kid giving you random facts at the grocery store. (One of his favorite for some odd reason is that our new house has 3 bathrooms.)
Becoming more independent. He goes to the bathroom on his own without even telling us anymore, sleeps in his big boy bed without rails, showers and dresses himself (which can produce interested outfits). Definitely not a baby.
Happy 4th Birthday Adrian. You couldn't be more loved and cherished. We can't wait to see what this next year brings. ~Mommy